Last part of the shirts story.

Red shirt is somewhere around, we keep in touch. I still dream of Blue shirt sometimes, wherever it is. Yellow shirt found a better owner. Thanks for the memories.

Quote from KeeWin, Dec 2006.

"In the Game of Love/Life, the Loser is the one who does not know how to Let Go and Move On"

In life, things will continually change whether you like it or not. You can cry and sulk about it all you want, but you cannot stop it. The only proper way to act is to get over it, let go and move on to the next part of your life. I am hardly the best person to give this advice but I am learning too. I suppose as one gets older, one SHOULD get a little wiser.

Even if one wanted to have as many friends as possible, one must defintely be resigned to the fact that certain friends will move away, grow distant, have better friends etc...and the only way to replenish these friends would be to have more friends..and learn to let those friends go....if it gets too hard to maintain a friendship/relationship, and you feel that it is not worth it, let it go. And get over it too. For my personal part, I am finally letting go and getting over the 'shirts' issue. For the first time in 2 years. I hope I am successful. It was VERY hard.

So some people were right. Just be thankful for the memories and move on. I thought that was very unsentimental/hard...but maybe it is the only way to go about it. Maybe now I might call it practical and being realistic. I suppose if one IS less attached to things and is able to let go more easily, one would definitely get hurt less. Maybe one should be that way, until the one who is worth it comes along ?

Relationships/Friendships can be so subjective, and it is too hard sometimes to keep up with all the new rules they put into the game. At a certain point, one would have to give up the game and retire. As for me, I think it might be time for a break. Just a short one. Before I come back with a vengeance.

Read an article today about tailor-made shirts and how they fit perfectly. I gotta find me a tailor soon.

PS worst joke to make to an exam-taker told by my Mom...

A and B had an exam. A asked B how was it ? B said it was very bad and he had to hand up an empty sheet of paper. A recoiled in horror and said "then the teacher will think I copied you !"...

Bad bad bad bad joke.

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